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Moving across the US with two babies

by Kimberly Huebner

The last few months have been a blur. Uprooting our family of four plus our trusty dog from Denver, CO to Cincinnati, OH has had its benefits and downfalls. One may say we took a tumble down the mountains of Colorado and popped right back in the mole holes of Ohio.

My husband Ben and I have been together since undergrad when we met on a cruise ship during Spring Break (that’s a fun story we can explore another time). Ben took me from undergrad on the West Coast to Omaha, NE where he began his medical journey. Love can lead you places you never thought you’d go, folks.

After four years of med school, his training to become a surgeon began in Cincinnati, OH. In a surprise turn of events we moved to Denver, CO mid-training for Ben to conduct trauma research…I was 8 months pregnant at the time. We welcomed not one but TWO babies in Denver during those two years, while surrounded by many family members from my husband’s side.

This time we'll be moving with an almost two-year-old boy and a four-month-old baby girl. Oh my!!

Huebner family in front of our home in Cincinnati two days after the move.

Now this wasn’t our first road trip with a baby in tow. My husband and I logged around 5,000 miles with our son in April - May 2016 on a National Parks Tour, so I like to think I learned how to survive long periods of time in the car with a baby.

And so it began… My husband had the luxury of riding in our U-Haul with his brother. Adult music, no crying, and less frequent stops…Sounds like a vacation to me.

My angel of a mother decided to cram into my Subaru with two babies and everything that entails for the three-day trek, while my always-loyal stepfather followed us in his Suburban pulling a trailer that acted as my personal breastfeeding mobile along the way. Oh, and he had the company of our dog plus their own two pups. When you look up caravan in the dictionary we would be the shining example.

I have to admit, I was very spoiled having my mother along for this car ride. She allowed me to drive the whole time while she tended to my children. Luckily my mother is quite agile for her age - there was quite a lot of moving back and forth from the front seat to the tiny sliver of a middle seat left in between the two car seats.

By day three we were road trip pros…or maybe we just thought we were because we hadn’t driven off a cliff …either way here are some tricks of the trade!

Rules of the Road Trip: The Mom Edition

• Have all the necessities on hand – DIAPERS, WIPES, BURP RAGS, CHANGE OF CLOTHES!!! My first stroke of genius hit me the night before our move. I filled up my trusty diaper caddy from The Good Baby with all of the essentials. This caddy saved us too many times to count. From blow-outs to spouts of car sickness, we were ready. The caddy is small enough to fit in between the front seat and the back seat but still big enough to hold everything we needed in a well organized manner. It also made all of our needs easily mobile for rest stops and trailer stops.
• New toys, new snacks, new games – Imagine how bored you get on a road trip. Combine that feeling with a toddler’s energy and attention span…This equals one easily agitated little human! Have a go-to bag of things your little one hasn’t tried yet to liven things up on the road a bit (i.e. holiday-themed stickers, a fun low-choking hazard new snack, I Spy).
• Don’t leave anything on top of your car, EVER – My husband and I learned this the hard way on our epic NP road trip… we lost Keen sandals, a sunshade for our Kelty backpack, and more. Guess who followed her own advice and didn’t lose anything to the highway during our move… this savvy Mama!
• For goodness sake, use the iPad – I am all about limiting screen time. Before having children I was one of those people that said, “I will never shove an iPad in my child’s face to distract them.” Fast forward two years later and I have the iPad locked and loaded with all my son’s mind-numbing favorites and guess what? It saved us from blowing our brains out multiple times.
• Set a realistic intention for each leg of the trip – The most important thing is arriving to your destination safely. Although you may have mapped out three days, it may take four. Re-evaluate each day based on the amount of sleep everyone got the night before, weather conditions, and your general sanity. I can’t tell you how many times Priceline saved us on the road when we needed a decent hotel quickly in an area we knew nothing about.

Amelia freshly changed using The Good Baby diaper caddy on the road during our most recent road trip this October.

Thanks to some solid preparations, useful tools, and what I believe to be spectacularly, well-adjusted kiddos we made it peacefully to the Queen City. Now the real test of surviving will be raising two little ones with no extended family around and a father who is chained to the hospital!

After a year and a half of designing a new diaper bag backpack, it's finally ready for everyone!

I was constantly frustrated with the design of other diaper bags, and could never find a bag that had functionality AND style. Through experience, I know that backpacks are essential when it comes to diaper bags. I need both my hands – without a bag falling off my shoulder – while I dive after my children trying to escape down the toy isle. So this diaper backpack was inspired from that!

And because I love pockets, this diaper backpack has over 10! We’ve included:

• Insulated bottle pockets on the side

• Mesh organizer pockets inside the main compartment for water bottles and wipes

• Mommy pocket with key ring

• Padded laptop/tablet sleeve

• A large zipper pocket inside the main compartment to hold all the diapers. I HATE having diapers floating around and in sight when I open my pretty bag. They are now hidden in their own easy zipper pocket.

• Pocket with super easy access for pacifiers, snacks, and lip gloss 

• Changing pad and stroller hooks included

Our Birch Bag is being launched under our new brand, Parker Baby Co. This has been a lengthy process, but we are excited for our new brand adventure. Parker Baby Co. will bring classic, high quality baby and toddler products to your doorstep - from our home to yours.

If you love your Birch Bag, leave a Parker Baby diaper bag review for us on Amazon or our website and it will absolutely make our day:-)

Anyone who knows me knows that I love a good deal. Having twins opened so many opportunities to save money!

Diapers are a costly necessity for babies. Some will argue that reusable diapers are the most frugal option, but we didn’t even consider it in anticipation of the craziness of being new parents. Here are a few tips to save money (and time!) on buying diapers.

1.     Buy diapers on sale (duh.)

I’m an active user on SlickDeals.net. If you haven’t explored SlickDeals, I strongly recommend doing so. I also strongly recommend doing so with your wallet in another room. Buying something you don’t need, just because it's on sale, doesn’t save you any money.

But you do need diapers, so it's smart to scan SlickDeals for diaper bargains. Always compare diaper sales on a cost per diaper basis. Don’t be afraid to ask questions on SlickDeals either; there are a lot of helpful members.

You’ll find that a lot of the deals require an Amazon Prime membership. If you don’t already have a membership, I recommend getting one. When things get crazy in your house (and they will), having diapers delivered to your door is an incredible convenience.

Pro tip: Set an alert for Pampers, Huggies, Up & Up, and “diapers”.

2.     Stock up before your baby arrives.

Some of you might not agree with this one, but hear me out. Emergency diaper runs are expensive. You don’t have time to compare costs. You might buy a small pack (even more expensive) to hold you over until they go on sale.

We were guilty of this, and we paid for it. When our girls were using Pamper’s Swaddlers, we paid a whopping $.2803 a diaper on an emergency run, compared to the $.1441/diaper we paid on sale. That’s almost 2x as expensive.

If you want to stock up on diapers like we should have, here's a rough idea of how many diapers each of our daughters used in the first 9 months of their lives:

• Size N: 190 (+ more at the hospital). Keep in mind our girls were born early at ~6 lbs. Singleton babies will require MUCH less Newborn diapers (if any at all). I recommend getting one pack initially.
• Size 1: 290
• Size 2: 225
• Size 3: >400. I stopped keeping track here, but my girls were in Size 3 for a long time.
• Size 4: >500. Same situation as Size 3, it feels like the girls have been in Size 4 forever.
• Wipes: We went through more than 1,500 for each baby during the first 9 months. Don’t be afraid to stock up. We had good luck with Pampers, Huggies, Amazon brand, and Kirkland.

Pro tip: Stock up on wipes, too (when they go on sale!!).

Bonus pro tip: Take all the diapers you can from the hospital. You are already paying for them, you might as well bring them home!

3.     Try different brands (in small quantities).

A wise mother (mine, to be exact) told me every new parent makes the mistake of buying the cheapest diapers. But it's a mistake they only make once. It’s painful to have to throw away or donate diapers because your baby got diaper rash from them or had endless blowouts. But that’s how you learn.

We started with Pamper’s Swaddlers. They are the Cadillac of diapers, and they are more expensive. But they are a great starting point, because I’ve never heard of parents having issues with them.

We moved the girls to Pamper’s Baby Dry when they were Size 2. We then moved them to the even cheaper Up & Up brand diapers when they were Size 3. We've only had great experiences with Target’s Up & Up diapers (we only wish we would have tried them sooner!). That being said, every baby is different so I recommend trying small packs of cheaper diapers to see if they work for you.

A brief review of some brands we tried:

• Huggies Snug & Dry – We mostly used these in the hospital when the girls were born. They worked well when the girls were really young, but we’ve had issues with blowouts when we used them more recently.
• Pamper’s Swaddlers – I consider these the best your money can buy, but they might be a little overkill.
• Pamper’s Baby Dry – We used these for a long time as they are much cheaper than Swaddlers. We never had any issues with them. They do not have the wet stripe like the Swaddlers, but we never missed it because we change the girls’ diapers regularly.
• Target Up & Up – Our new “go-to” for diapers. Cheap and effective. We've never had issues with blowouts or diaper rash.
• Kirkland – We love everything Kirkland, but (sadly) we haven't tried their diapers. We will probably try them in the near future because we've heard good things.
• Parents’ Choice – Stay away if you can. We had some gifted to us, so we tried them once. Never again…

Pro tip: Dad’s – throw a diaper party. I’ve seen guys do this around a sporting event (Super Bowl, March Madness, etc.) and set the entry fee at one (or more) packs of diapers.

I'm sure we are missing some valuable tips, so please comment below with your tips for new parents!