Moving across the US with two babies
by Kimberly Huebner
The last few months have been a blur. Uprooting our family of four plus our trusty dog from Denver, CO to Cincinnati, OH has had its benefits and downfalls. One may say we took a tumble down the mountains of Colorado and popped right back up the mole holes of Ohio.
Let me begin our epic moving story by providing a quick background of my family. My husband Ben and I have been together since undergrad when we met on a cruise ship during Spring Break (that’s a fun story we can explore another time). Ben took me from undergrad on the West Coast to Omaha, NE where he began his medical journey. Love can lead you places you never thought you’d go, folks. After four years of med school, his training to become a surgeon began in Cincinnati, OH. In a surprise turn of events we moved to Denver, CO mid-training for Ben to conduct trauma research…I was 8 months pregnant at the time. We welcomed not one but TWO babies in Denver during those two years, while surrounded by many family members from my husband’s side. This time we would be moving with an almost two-year-old boy and a four-month-old baby girl. Oh my!!
Huebner family in front of our home in Cincinnati two days after the move.
Now this wasn’t our first road trip with a baby in tow. My husband and I logged around 5000 miles with our son in April - May 2016 on a National Parks Tour, so I like to think I learned how to survive long periods of time in the car with a baby.
And so it began… My husband had the luxury of riding in our U-Haul with his brother. Adult music, no crying, and less frequent stops…Sounds like a vacation to me. My angel of a mother decided to cram into my Subaru with two babies and everything that entails for the three-day trek, while my always-loyal stepfather followed us in his Suburban pulling a trailer that acted as my personal breastfeeding mobile along the way. Oh, and he had the company of our dog plus their own two pups. When you look up caravan in the dictionary we would be the shining example.
I have to admit, I was very spoiled having my mother along for this car ride. She allowed me to drive the whole time while she tended to my children. Luckily my mother is quite agile for her age, because there was quite a lot of moving back and forth from the front seat to the tiny sliver of a middle seat left in between the two car seats. By day three we were road trip pros…or maybe we just thought we were because we hadn’t driven off a cliff …either way here are some tricks of the trade!
Rules of the Road Trip: The Mom Edition
- Have all the necessities on hand – DIAPERS, WIPES, BURP RAGS, CHANGE OF CLOTHES!!! My first stroke of genius hit me the night before our move. I filled up my trusty diaper caddy from The Good Baby with all of the essentials. This caddy saved us too many times to count. From blow-outs to spouts of car sickness, we were ready. The caddy is small enough to fit in between the front seat and the feet of the back seat but still big enough to encompass everything we needed in a well organized manner. It also makes all of your needs easily mobile for rest stops or in our case trailer stops.
- New toys, new snacks, new games – Imagine how bored you get on a road trip. Combine that feeling with a toddler’s energy and attention span…This equals one easily agitated little human! Have a go-to bag of things you little one hasn’t tried yet to liven things up on the road a bit. (i.e. holiday themed stickers, a fun low-choking hazard new snack, play I Spy)
- Don’t leave anything on top of your car, EVER – My husband and I learned this the hard way on our epic NP road trip… we lost Keen sandals, a sunshade for our Kelty backpack, etc. Guess who followed her own advice and didn’t lose anything to the highway during our move… this savvy Mama!
- For goodness sake use the i-Pad – I am all about limiting screen time. Before having children I was one of those people that said, “I will never shove an i-Pad in my child’s face to distract them.” Fast forward two years later and I have the i-Pad locked and loaded with all my son’s favorite mind numbing favorites and guess what? It saved us from blowing our brains out multiple times.
- Set a realistic intention for each leg of the trip – The most important thing is arriving to your destination safely. Although you may have mapped out three days it may take four. Re-evaluate each day based on the amount of sleep everyone got the night before, weather conditions, and your general sanity. I can’t tell you how many times Priceline saved us on the road when we needed a decent hotel in a hurry in an area we knew nothing about.
Amelia freshly changed using The Good Baby diaper caddy on the road during our most recent road trip this October.
Thanks to some solid preparations, useful tools, and what I believe to be spectacularly, well-adjusted kiddos we made it peacefully to the Queen City. Now the real test of surviving while raising two little ones with no extended family around and a father who is a slave to the hospital begins!